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Tuesday, November 29, 2005

Finding a New Holiday Present

EBENEZER SCROOGE, watch your back.

Kevin McCollum, the same Broadway producer behind the musicals "Rent" and "Avenue Q," is out to grab a chunk of the holiday audiences that queue up yearly across the U.S. for productions of "A Christmas Carol" and "The Nutcracker."

McCollum and a team of partners are staging "Irving Berlin's White Christmas" in Los Angeles, San Francisco and Boston — three productions, each with 32 cast members and a 25-piece pit orchestra, all under director Walter Bobbie's supervision, with performances running through the end of the year.

"I think people are thirsty for something more over the holidays," McCollum said. "And I realized there's no musical. There's variety. The regional theaters do 'Christmas Carol,' and the ballets do 'Nutcracker.' But musical theater has nothing."

Source: Christopher Reynolds, http://www.calendarlive.com/stage/cl-ca-white27nov27,0,2479756.story?coll=cl-home-more-channels

Monday, November 28, 2005

Romantic Holiday Gifts: Luxury Chocolate


Like coffee before it, chocolate is going complex and upscale. This holiday season, look for Tasmanian honey wrapped in dark chocolate from Godiva and custom-made boxes tied with double-faced satin ribbon at exclusive Manhattan specialty store Bergdorf Goodman. Christmas is the peak time for premium chocolate sales, and big candy companies and small chocolatiers alike are rolling out some of their most high-end products to date.

Looking for a romantic holiday gift for the chocolate lover in your life? She'll melt for the Chocolate Reverie and Chocolate Heaven Lingerie Gift-o-Grams!

Source: http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2005/11/26/AR2005112600191.html

Sunday, November 27, 2005

Sexy Bras, Rhinestones, and Scarves: Favorite Fashion Items


* If I have on a good, comfortable, sexy bra, I feel that I look my best -- whatever the outfit or occasion.

* My favorite fashion items, that I can't live without, are my black Swarvoski crystal bracelets. I live in a very un-ritzy college town and I wear them when I go out to dinner or dancing at a club to add a little glamour to the evening. The way they sparkle makes me feel like a million bucks! Add a little sparkle to your life with our rhinestone bridal lingerie!

* My black-and-white scarf: it's a neck scarf, a head wrap, and always practical. Treat yourself to the Secret Delights Lingerie Gift-o-Gram, which includes a gorgeous, oblong scarf.

Source: http://fashion.about.com/blfavorite.htm

Saturday, November 26, 2005

Lingerie: Indulge Yourself While Shopping!

Findings of the 2005 Avon Global Women's Survey:

Shopping is cited as women's favorite indulgence with 42% of women around the world saying that when they want to do something special for themselves, they buy clothes!

Other popular indulgences are having their hair done (30%), eating out (23%), and buying make-up (23%).

While the popularity of individual indulgences varies by region, buying clothes is the most popular indulgence in all regions except Eastern/Central Europe, where buying make-up and eating sweets is more popular.

In terms of age groups and regions the frequency with which "women indulge" does vary. Women in Western Europe and Latin/South/Central America are the most likely to indulge frequently - 60% and 57% respectively do so at least once a week. By age, younger women aged 15-24 are the most likely to frequently do something special for themselves - 61% do so at least once a week.

Friday, November 25, 2005

For Men Only: 5 Ways to Get Stronger over the Holidays

Few men believe it, but you don't need barbells, dumbbells, or machines to build muscle; in fact, weight-training equipment often inhibits the process. That's because it requires you to be in a specific location, which might explain why more men consider themselves runners than lifters. After all, running is the most accessible form of exercise—anywhere you go, there's your gym. But learn a little bit about physics and the same can hold true for your muscle workout.

Consider the pullup: It's the standard by which all body-weight exercises are measured. And even the most hard-core lifters will agree that there's no better muscle builder for the upper body—with or without weights. The reason for its effectiveness: It takes full advantage of the scientific laws of motion and leverage, placing your body in a position that forces your back and arms to lift your entire body weight. Call it applied science at its finest.

Now imagine if all body-weight exercises were as challenging as the pullup. You'd be able to build muscle anywhere, anytime—at home, on the road, or even in a public park. Physical science makes it possible. So with that said ... the Five Laws of Body-Weight Training.

Law #1: The longer your body, the weaker you become.

The science: By increasing the distance between the point of force (your target muscles) and the end of the object you're trying to lift (your body), you decrease your mechanical advantage. Think of it this way: An empty barbell is easy to lift off the floor if you grab it in the middle. But try moving a few inches in one direction and it instantly seems heavier—even though its weight hasn't changed. The same is true of your body: Lengthen it and every exercise you do becomes harder.

Apply it: Raise your hands above your head—so your arms are straight and in line with your body—during a lunge, squat, crunch, or situp. If that's too hard, split the distance by placing your hands behind your head.

Law #2: The farther you move, the more muscle you work.

The science: In physics, "mechanical work" is equal to force (or weight) times distance. And since your muscles and bones function together as simple machines—they form class 1, 2, and 3 levers—the same formula applies to your body. It's the most basic of principles: Do more work, build more muscle. Of course, in a weight-free workout, you can't increase force (unless you gain weight). But you can boost your work output by moving a greater distance during each repetition.

Apply it: Each of the following three methods increases the distance your body has to travel from start to finish, increasing not only the total amount of work you do, but also the amount of work you do in the most challenging portion of the exercise.

Hard: Move the floor farther away. For many body-weight exercises—lunges, pushups, situps—your range of motion ends at the floor. The solution: Try placing your front or back foot on a step when doing lunges; position your hands on books or your feet on a chair when doing pushups; and place a rolled-up towel under the arch in your lower back when doing situps.

Harder: Add on a quarter. From the starting position of a pushup, squat, or lunge, lower yourself into the down position. But instead of pushing your body all the way up, raise it only a quarter of the way. Then lower yourself again before pushing your body all the way up. That counts as one repetition.

Hardest: Try mini-repetitions. Instead of pushing your body all the way up from the down position, do five smaller reps in which you raise and lower your body about an inch each time. After the fifth mini-repetition, push yourself up till your arms are straight. That counts as one repetition.

Law #3: As elastic energy decreases, muscle involvement increases.

The science: When you lower your body during any exercise, you build up "elastic energy" in your muscles. Just like in a coiled spring, that elasticity allows you to "bounce" back to the starting position, reducing the work your muscles have to do. Eliminate the bounce and you'll force your body to recruit more muscle fibers to get you moving again. How? Pause for 4 seconds in the down position of an exercise. That's the amount of time it takes to discharge all the elastic energy of a muscle.

Apply it: Use the 4-second pause in any exercise. And give yourself an extra challenge by adding an explosive component, forcefully pushing your body off the floor—into the air as high as you can—during a pushup, lunge, or squat. Because you're generating maximum force without any help from elastic energy, you'll activate the greatest number of muscle fibers possible.

Law #4: Moving in two directions is better than moving in one.

The science: Human movement occurs on three different geometric planes:

  • the sagittal plane, for front-to-back and up-and-down movements
  • the frontal plane, for side-to-side movements
  • the transverse plane, for rotational movements

Most weight-lifting movements—the bench press, squat, curl, lunge, and chinup, to name a few — are performed on the sagittal plane; the balance of exercises—for instance, the lateral lunge and side bend—occur almost entirely on the frontal plane. This means that most men rarely train their bodies on the transverse plane, despite using rotation constantly in everyday life, as well as in every sport. Case in point: walking. It's subtle, but your hips rotate with every step; in fact, watch a sprinter from behind and you'll see that his hips rotate almost 90 degrees. By adding a rotational component to any exercise, you'll automatically work more muscle—since you'll fully engage your core, as well as the original target muscles — and simultaneously build a better-performing body.

Apply it: Simply twist your torso to the right or left in exercises such as the lunge, situp, and pushup. You can also rotate your hips during movements such as the reverse crunch.

Law #5: The less contact your body has with the floor, the more your muscles must compensate.

The science: The smaller the percentage of an object's surface area that's touching a solid base, the less stable that object is. That's why SUVs are prone to rolling, and tall transmission towers need guy wires. Fortunately, humans have a built-in stabilization system: muscles. And by forcing that internal support system to kick in—by making your body less stable—you'll make any exercise harder, while activating dozens more muscles.

Apply it: Hold one foot in the air during virtually any exercise, including pushups, squats, and deadlifts. You can also do pushups on your fingertips or your fists.

Source: http://articles.health.msn.com/id/100111621

Thursday, November 24, 2005

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Tuesday, November 22, 2005

7 Secrets to Keeping the Love & Romance Alive



While there are many different ways to tie the love knot, certain common denominators exist among the ranks of the contented. To increase the odds that your relationship will succeed, consider the following strategies:

1. The couple that plays together stays together. Do you find you want to see the same movies and spectator sports? Or is your honey off surfing every weekend while you're solving complicated equations with your local math club? Does your mate crave vacations in inaccessible snowy mountains while you're hankering after Caribbean getaways? If you can't have fun spending your down time together, your relationship has a built-in expiration date.

2. Talk, talk, talk! Sure, the silent heaving sighs of the passionate nocturnal embrace are important, especially in those heated first weeks. But unless you've got something to talk about in the long stretches of the daylight hours — or unless you want to spend your entire life naked — you're not going to see it through.

3. Let's get physical. Not every encounter has to make the sparks fly and the house burn down — save that for bad South American movies. But you need to make sure the physical side of things works. There has to be a little bit of spice, even in your daily fare. Click here for a sexy gift-o-gram!

4. Be on the same page. Do you both view the relationship as a kind of strange experiment, a way-station on the path to true love, or the beginnings of a lifelong dream come true? What matters isn't so much your answer, but that you choose the same answer.

5. Fight fair. All couples have spots of bad weather, from minor squalls to raging storms. But smart partners don't allow molehills to become mountains or use their words as weapons. No matter how angry you may be, refrain from attacking your partner's character or preying on insecurities.

6. Learn the art of making up. Fights are inevitable. But what matters is that both of you know how to drop it once all your frustrations have been vented and then kiss and smooch in between the tears and sloppy "I love you" talk. If necessary, cultivate short-term memory loss.

7. Create a cult of two. Every couple has a special something that keeps things going. Each has some special shared passion — whether it's amateur astronomy, gourmet cooking or children. Other relationships thrive on shared dislikes — of neighbors and in-laws, of other countries or political systems. Some couples thrive on a master-servant relationship. Others find that the key to their success is that they only see each other on Sundays. Every relationship that works has something unique — it's own raison d'etre. If you can find that, you can safely ignore all the other rules.

Source: http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?
articleid=1269&TrackingID=516311&
BannerID=544657&menuid=7

Monday, November 21, 2005

Romance: Tips on Dating from Usher



Ned some dating tips? Ask Usher. The R&B singer, who is starring in his first lead role in "In the Mix," shared his secrets with Time magazine.

"Women love compliments, you know what I mean? Buy her a drink," he said. "Talk to her about whatever it is that she wants to talk about. As long as you keep her laughing, you got it."

The film features the 27-year-old musician as Darrell, a playboy New York City disc jockey who finds himself in an interracial relationship with co-star Emmanuelle Chriqui.

Usher, whose 2004 "Confessions" had huge critical and commercial success, isn't the only musician with a movie these days. Rapper 50 Cent has his own movie, too. Both show the stars baring some skin. But does Usher think he's the better man?

"I'm a smaller guy. 50's got the arms, I got the abs," he says.

Source: http://music.msn.com/music/article.aspx?news=207594&GT1=7418

Sunday, November 20, 2005

Music to Wear Lingerie By: Top Romantic Songs



1. I Swear - All for One
2. I Do (Cherish You) - 98 Degrees
3. Always - Bon Jovi
4. My Heart Will Go On - Celine Dion
5. You were Meant For Me - Jewel
6. Every Breath You Take - Police
7. Truly, Madly, Deeply - Savage Garden
8. Faithfully - Journey
9. Open Arms - Journey
10. Greatest Love of All - Whitney Houston
11. Tonight I Celebrate My Love - Roberta Flack & Peabo Bryson
12. Endless Love - Lionel Ritchie & Diana Ross
13. I Will Always Love You - Whitney Houston
14. Lost In Your Eyes - Debbie Gibson
15. Everything I Do, I Do It For You - Bryan Adams
16. Amazing - Lonestar
17. Have I Told You Lately - Rod Stewart
18. Take My Breath Away - Top Gun Theme
19. The Power of Love - Celine Dion
20. Breathe - Faith Hi

Source: http://www.usabride.com/wedplan/a_romantic_songs.html

Saturday, November 19, 2005

Romantic Gifts for Men


1. Compliments. The quickest path to a man's heart is through his ego. "The other day, my lady told me she thought I was sexy. That was so cool! I'd never heard that before and it blew me away!" says a schoolteacher from Chicago. A political consultant from Washington, D.C. agrees: "The most romantic thing in the world is for you to be in awe of your man's skills -- whether it's his ability to make people laugh, perform at sports, fix things, or retrieve and display esoteric knowledge. Let him wow you," he says.

2. Dark chocolate. "Milk chocolate is for kids. Dark chocolate is for lovers," says Weinstein, who explains that dark chocolate has a higher percentage of cocoa, which means it has more phenylethylamine, a chemical that mimics the feeling you have when you're in love. Share the dark chocolate in our Chocolate Reverie Lingerie Gift-o-Gram!

3. Hard-to-find gifts. Is his college sweatshirt so faded you can't decipher the name of his alma mater? Is he mourning the loss of a rare comic book that his mother threw away when he left home? Does he collect antique hood ornaments? Webb says that a gift that requires some effort is sure to be a big hit with your guy. "Men and women tend to express love differently. Women are usually the more nurturing types and tend to think of romance in terms of 'soft touches' while men express love in more practical ways," says Webb.

4. You, in his clothes. "Come to the dinner table wearing nothing but his button-down dress shirt. Now that's romance!" says an artist from Boston.

5. Funny movies. "A lot of people say that shared values or goals are what make a relationship work," says Weinstein. "But to me it's a shared sense of humor. If you like the Marx Brothers and your date doesn't, then it's simply not going to work," he says. "When you can find someone to laugh with, then you know you're really connecting."

6. A great memory. A picture really does paint a thousand words -- especially if it's of the two of you tanned and glowing at a beachside resort. "I went to my girlfriend's office and saw that she had a picture of us on vacation in Cancun," says a Seattle construction worker. "Little things like that just make you feel great."

7. An old-fashioned night on the town. A publisher in New York says that he isn't a huge romantic, but he admits that the rotating dance floor at the Rainbow Room makes him pretty gooey. "You're surrounded by well-dressed couples of all ages who know how to dance. This gives the effect of being in a romantic movie about old New York. Plus, it's a little disorienting with all that spinning around, which puts you in a dreamlike state," he says.

8. Tall buildings. Because in general guys just like big stuff. But also because taking in such a huge view can put life into perspective. "The tremendous view of the city with all its lights is not only awesome in its own right, but accentuates the essential smallness of the individual person," says a Chicago attorney. "Thus humbled, it is most comforting to realize, at that instant, you're not alone in the world."

9. Surprise intimacy. Whether it's an unexpected kiss or an afternoon jaunt to the bedroom, men swoon when women say "Come hither." "We like surprises -- like when you initiate sex at odd times, or rent a room in the middle of the day. We also like beaches, bed-and-breakfasts, and when you squeeze our thigh at a snooty dinner party. Oh, and baths. We like bubble baths," says a writer from New York. (Try our Fun in the Tub Lingerie Gift-o-Gram. The perfect gift for two!

Source: http://lifestyle.msn.com/Relationships/LoveandRomance/ArticleLHJ.aspx?cp-documentid=21631

Friday, November 18, 2005

History of Rhinestones in Fashion



Definition: rhinestones - colorless imitation stones of high luster made of glass, paste, or gem quartz

Rhinestones are pieces of faceted glass. The original rhinestones were pebbles of rock crystal from the Rhine River (Austria's western boundary).

The true sparkle began in about 1775 when a French jeweler named George Frederic Stras had an idea to coat the lower side of glass with metal powder. The resulting quality closely imitated diamonds. They still were not real affordable because the stones were individually handcrafted.

1892 Daniel Swarovski, son of a Bohemian gem cutter, applied for a patent on his first invention: a machine that cuts crystal jewelry stones with unprecedented precision.

1895 Swarovski moves to Austria, where his invention could be powered by water, to set up a factory specializing in the production of cut crystal jewelry stones. Success in producing rhinestones economically without compromising the quality of the cut is achieved which meant acceptance in the jewelry industry.

1911 Daniel and his three sons refine methods to produce stones to a state of flawless brilliance. 1917 the company succeeds in producing grinding wheels for cutting crystal stones to increase production capacity.

1955 the Aurora Borealis is presented; a coating is applied to crystal stones to produce a rainbow of colors effect

1956 Daniel dies at the grand old age of 94 leaving one of Austrians largest companies and one of the worlds largest producers of rhinestones which exports 80% of its production.

Today crystal rhinestones are primarily used on costumes, apparel and jewelry and are produced mainly in Austria and the Czech Republic Acrylic rhinestones are also manufactured in several countries.

Source: http://jewelry.about.com

Thursday, November 17, 2005

Chocolate Heaven


A Little Lingerie Company knows that chocolate is the greatest gift of all - that's why we created our Chocolate Heaven Lingerie Gift-o-Gram.

Read below to learn about the latest chocolate craze ... chocolate with tea!

Chocolate infused with tea — be it Earl Grey, green or Irish Breakfast — is exploding in the chocolate industry. Many confectioners showed off their candy brews at the 8th annual Chocolate Show this weekend in New York City.

"Tea and chocolate are a very good combination," said François Payard, owner of Payard patisserie and bistro in Manhattan. "They are two strong flavors that go well together."

Source: http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,175447,00.html

Wednesday, November 16, 2005

Rhinestone Bridal Lingerie


Add some sparkle to your wedding and honeymoon with these lovely rhinestone tanks, thongs, panties, and boyshorts. Choose ones that say "Bride" or "Bachelorette" - or customize them to say whatever you'd like!

Tuesday, November 15, 2005

A Day at the Spa


We all enjoy a bath and spa day. Some bath salts, exotic soap, cascades of hot water - what better way to relax?

This love of spas has grown along with history. "Although spas seem to have sprung up overnight, that’s not the case. “The Waters” can be traced back to early civilizations. Like water, spa popularity has come in waves throughout history. Prof. Jonathan Paul de Vierville, Ph.D., spa historian and owner of the Alamo Plaza Spa at the Menger Hotel in San Antonio, Texas, USA, notes that the popularity of spas has accompanied cultures with leisure time. Social bathing was an important cultural process practiced by Mesopotamians, Egyptians, Minoans, Greeks, and Romans whenever they sought health and relief from their pain and diseases. "

Source: http://www.discoverspas.com/spaarticles/spaevolution.shtml

Monday, November 14, 2005

Romantic Tips for the Holiday Season



1. Serve your man a steaming cup of hot chocolate -- with extra marshmallows -- when he comes in from shoveling the snow. Or better yet, join him outside to play in the snow.

2. Arrange for a romantic sleigh ride through the streets of your city or a nearby field. Cuddle up under the blanket to keep warm.

3. Celebrate crossing items off your holiday shopping list by stopping for a steaming cup of flavored coffee and some conversation.

4. Fill each other's stockings with sexy gifts like massage lotion and lingerie. Carve out some time to actually use them!

5. Share a hot bubble bath on a cold winter night. For extra bubbles, sip champagne while you soak.

6. Start planning a trip somewhere warm. Whether you actually go or not, it's fun to fantasize about escaping the cold and lying on the beach.

7. Hang mistletoe in a spot you have to pass frequently -- and don't go by without a smooch!

8. Rent classic movies, build a fire in the fireplace, and share a cozy evening at home.

9. Volunteer at a soup kitchen or homeless shelter. You'll get to spend quality time together, plus you'll realize how fortunate you really are.

10. Bake your husband's favorite holiday cookies -- and ask him to be the "chief cookie-tester."

11. Mark the end of the old year and the beginning of the new by opening a bottle of wine and reminiscing about the events of the past year and sharing what you hope for in the coming year.

12. Leave each other little gifts (movie tickets, candy, a CD) in unexpected places like a briefcase, the car, or on his pillow.

Source: http://lifestyle.msn.com/Relationships/LoveandRomance/ArticleLHJ.aspx?cp-documentid=85328>1=7386

Sunday, November 13, 2005

Real Simple Gifts: Ways to Prepare for the Holidays



1. Buy gifts in bulk
Yes, of course you want your gifts to be personal, but only for the people you really know personally. For the rest, shop at the supermarket. Choose your favorite gourmet food item—such as festively packaged Terra Medi Extra Virgin Olive Oil (opposite; $10 at gourmet stores or www.crateandbarrel.com)—and buy enough of it to last you through this season’s parade of parties and visits.


If You Have 5 Minutes
2. Plan your seating chart. Head off heated political debates this holiday season by working out a dinner seating chart ahead of time. Make sure Uncle Buck, the ex-marine, doesn’t sit next to draft-dodging cousin Terry, who’s been living in Canada since the 70s. “I always seat my best friend next to me and, when it’s warranted, the person I like least at the other end of the table,” says Donata Maggipinto, author of Christmas Family Gatherings (www.amazon.com, $23). “I also place talkers next to nontalkers.” While many families separate grown-ups from kids, Ann Hodgman, author of the new holiday handbook I Saw Mommy Kicking Santa Claus (www.amazon.com, $20), recommends mixing young and old, and giving kids pads and pens to keep them occupied throughout dinner. “Hangman and tic-tac-toe are multigenerational activities,” says Hodgman.

3. Order stamps. Waiting your turn at the post office during the holiday rush is about as much fun as a trip to the DMV. Instead, order your stamps online this year — whenever you like and with the click of a button — at shop. usps.com. New holiday stamps are on sale now.

4. Book beauty appointments. Schedule your December haircut and manicures now (especially if you’ll need a Saturday appointment), before you’re shut out.

5. Plant emergency cleaning supplies. Place disinfecting wipes in every bathroom. (Look for Clorox Disinfecting Wipes or the more indulgent Method Lavender All Purpose Wipes, available at Target, www.target.com.) That way, if something should get in the way of cleaning before guests arrive—you know, like cooking, shopping, dressing your two-year-old—you’ll be able to do a quick strategic wipe-down of all the important surfaces.

6. Make it a bill-free holiday. If your budget allows, pay projected November and December phone, utility, and cable bills when you’re knocking off October’s. It will be one less thing to think about—just file away the next couple of credit-balance statements when they arrive and you’re done.

7. Save the date. Saturday nights in December get booked up fast. If you’re planning a gathering, stake your claim now with a quick e-mail to friends, and follow up later with real invitations. Note: Don’t discount Sunday afternoon as a time slot. Often you’ll have less competition and a less formal (read: less stressful) event.

8. Prepare to take daywear into evening. Fill a tote with a few festive pieces—a pair of heels, an evening bag, sparkly earrings—and stash it in the car or under your desk at work so you’re always ready for a party without having to stop at home first.

9. Organize your table linens.
# Arrange napkins by count (sets of 6, 8, or 12) and tablecloths by shape (oblong, oval, square) so you don’t have to turn the entire stack upside down when looking for the set that matches your head count.

# If you don’t have enough of one color or pattern, don’t run around town trying to fill in the blanks. Try alternating complementary colors, then strategically select the floral arrangement. “Flowers can bring all the errant colors together,” says Serena Bass, author of Serena, Food & Stories (www.amazon.com, $32.50). “People ask, ‘How did you get all these napkins to match your flowers?’”


10. Start a holiday binder. It sounds like something a Brownie troop leader would create, but “once you train yourself to do it, it makes life a lot easier,” says Hodgman. Find a binder with tabbed dividers that makes you happy in that back-to-school kind of way. Things to keep track of: recipes you make each year and new ones clipped from magazines (which are currently sliding down the refrigerator door); gift lists, so next year you won’t give the neighbors that same Santa candle; catalog pages with gift ideas; receipts and printouts of online orders (otherwise it’s your word against theirs, and how do you return that fabulous garden gnome that somehow failed to please Aunt Margie?).


Written by Pilar Guzman and Jenny Rosenstrach, November 2004;
http://www.realsimple.com/realsimple/content/0,21770,714289,00.html

Saturday, November 12, 2005

Lingerie Grams and Lingerie Gifts


Why wait for Valentine's Day to give a gift with a little lingerie? Everyone needs underwear, but everyone loves lingerie - it's the perfect gift! For best friends, sisters, sweethearts, and even yourself!

Start your holiday season off right. Give a lingerie gift-o-gram!

Thursday, November 10, 2005

Working Women become Entrepreneurs

Working mothers who can't get employers to offer flexible working arrangements are striking out on their own. "Women are starting businesses at twice the rate of all businesses," says Sharon G. Hadary, executive director of the Center for Women's Business Research, a Washington (D.C.) nonprofit. The center also found that from 1997 to 2004, employment at female-owned companies grew by 24.2%, more than twice the rate of the 11.6% logged by all businesses, and the pace of revenue increase was also higher -- 39% vs. 33.5%."

Source: Working Moms Tear Down Office Walls, BusinessWeek Online, SPECIAL REPORT: WORKING MOMS by Pallavi Gogoi, edited by Beth Belton

Wednesday, November 09, 2005

Tips from Wildly Successful Women

Maria Contreras-Sweet, Secretary of Business, Transportation and Housing, the first Latina in a California Governor's cabinet, Leslie Margolin, a Senior Vice President for Kaiser Permanente and Melba Muscarolas, Regional President, Los Angeles for Pacific Bell discussed success, and what it really takes for a woman to make it to the top.

* Learn the corporate culture.
Understand the company and its politics. Know the fundamentals of the company. Do not let the corporation stifle you. If there is something you do not understand, ask questions. Remember, the only dumb question is the one you do not ask.

* Keep your eyes open.
Be observant, watch and listen. Learn from those you respect as well as those you do not. It is not just position or job title, but what women do with it.

* Work hard.
The stories of women working twice as hard as men to get to the same position is still true. Try to do more than the job description requires. Unfortunately, many times women are still assumed to be incompetent while the opposite is true for men. Reality is, they must work harder and put in longer hours than their male counterparts to advance in management.

* Attend to the home front.
Strong family, spouse or significant other support is critical. Advancement in the corporate world may necessitate moving to a new location every few years. Balancing work and family is a challenge that affects women more than men.

* Collect experience.
Do not hesitate to take different positions within the corporation, even if they are lateral moves. The more you know about the company, the more valuable you are.

To read the rest of Deborah Prussel's article, "From Wildly Successful Women:
How to Make It in Management," please click here.

Monday, November 07, 2005

Bath and Spa Indulgence

The New York Times just published an article on fabulous spas in Israel. But why wait until you can travel? Treat yourself now to a Fun in the Tub Gift-o-Gram and you'll be halfway to heaven - without the cost of travel, or the jet lag!

You get the highest quality lavender bath salts and lavender petal soap - each made with natural, organic ingredients by Vermont Soapworks. Plus, you get a rubber ducky and a beautiful stretch lace boyshort by French designer, Ascension.

To read the New York Times article on up-and-coming spas in Israel, go to: http://travel2.nytimes.com/2005/11/06/travel/06spas.html.

Sunday, November 06, 2005

Tips for a Romantic Holiday Season: Chocolate, Gifts, and Special Moments


Schedule some time for just the two of you. In this hectic season, be sure to take a night for dinner or a movie, or just to hold hands and drink hot chocolate.

Give each other one gift that shouldn't be opened in front of the rest of the family. Keep the romance alive by having a private gift exchange. Here's when you can give each other mementos of special moments or gifts just for the two of you.

Spoon. No matter how exhausting the day was, try to cuddle up for a moment or two before falling asleep.