Thoughts on Sexiness

What is people's issue with being sexy?

That's the question for today, folks. Is it a problem with being sexy, or does it have to do with being the center of attention? I'm not sure what it is, but having a dramatic flair -especially one with a sexy edge - makes a lot of people really uncomfortable.

In fact, people seem to feel comfortable showing their sexuality only if they do so exactly like everyone else around them. Meaning, it's okay to be sexy, but only if you're sexy exactly like everybody else.

My question is, is that really sexiness at all?

I don't think so. Real sexuality is about who you are as an individual. If you're being like everybody else, you're not truly being sexy. Sexiness is about intimacy. It's about revealing the inner you. How can you do that if you present a picture of sexiness that is exactly like that of everybody else?

Of course, I realize that when we first enter adulthood, it can be scary to reveal that much about ourselves. Especially when sexuality is still so new to us. But there comes a time when, if you're still following the crowd, you've lost sense of who you are. Or maybe you’ve just never found out.