Gifts of Lingerie: What is a Guy Really Saying When He Gives You Lingerie?

A lot of women seem confused about receiving lingerie as a gift from their boyfriends or husbands. Even when they love the lingerie, even when they love their sexual relationship, sometimes they get confused. Why? Because women are convinced that men are implying they need to be more sexy – that they aren’t sexy enough just the way they are.

Well, ladies, as the owner of a lingerie boutique that has many male customers, let me tell you what he’s really saying … and what he isn’t with that gift of lingerie.

What he’s not saying
He’s NOT saying that you should change who you are or that you aren’t sexy enough. Nor is he saying that he wants you to pretend to be someone else.

What he is saying
He IS saying that you are incredibly sexy, that he loves looking at you, that he thinks you are gorgeous and beautiful.

Men do not give lingerie to women they do not find sexy. Men don’t even want to picture women they find unattractive in lingerie. So, if he’s given you a gift of lingerie, you can rest assured that he thinks you’re pretty hot, just the way you are.

So why do they give clothes for us to dress up in?
Guys are visual. Lingerie means sexy to them, and for a guy to see the woman he loves wearing lingerie is a special fantasy. It’s a simple equation: you are sexy, lingerie is sexy, how amazing would it be to combine the two together.

So the next time your guy gives you a gift of lingerie, know what he’s really trying to tell you: that you are sexy and amazing just the way you are. And he is so glad he is the one who gets to see that side of you.